Editorial Glossary
DINKtionary
The language of life without children.
Every community develops its own language. Some words emerge naturally. Others evolve over decades. A few are borrowed from finance, travel or culture before finding new meaning.
The DINK community is no different.
The DINKtionary is dinkfolk's growing editorial glossary of the words, phrases and acronyms that help describe modern life without children. Some have been in use for years. Others are newer.
A handful, marked dinkfolk , have been developed by the dinkfolk editorial team to give language to experiences that many readers recognise but have never quite had the words to describe.
Like the community itself, this is a living document. We'll continue adding to it as the language evolves.
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- Adult-only /ˈæd.ʌlt ˈoʊn.li/ adj.
Experiences, destinations, hotels, restaurants or venues designed exclusively for adults.
While not created specifically for DINKs, adult-only environments naturally appeal to many people looking for quieter, more relaxed experiences.
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- Barista FIRE /bəˈriː.stə ˌfaɪər/ n. phr.
A form of Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE) where someone has accumulated enough investments to leave full-time employment but chooses to work part-time for enjoyment, purpose or lifestyle.
- Bleisure /ˈbliː.ʒər/ n.
A combination of business and leisure travel.
Usually describes extending a work trip into a holiday or combining remote working with travel.
- Blue Mind /bluː maɪnd/ n. phr.
A term popularised by marine biologist Dr Wallace J. Nichols describing the calm, restorative mental state experienced when spending time in, on or near water.
Blue Mind has become closely associated with wellbeing, coastal living and slow travel.
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- Child-free /ˌtʃaɪld ˈfriː/ adj.
Someone who does not have children.
Being child-free describes a personal decision rather than a household type. Many child-free people identify as DINKs, although not every child-free person lives in a DINK household.
- Child-free by Choice /ˌtʃaɪld ˈfriː baɪ tʃɔɪs/ n. phr.
A more specific description used by people who intentionally choose not to become parents.
- Child-free by Circumstance /ˌtʃaɪld ˈfriː baɪ ˈsɜː.kəm.stæns/ n. phr.
Someone whose life currently doesn’t include children due to circumstances outside their control, but who still identifies with many aspects of the DINK lifestyle.
- Childless /ˈtʃaɪld.ləs/ adj.
Someone who does not have children.
Unlike child-free, the term often describes circumstance rather than intention. dinkfolk recognises both experiences equally.
- Coast FIRE /koʊst ˌfaɪər/ n. phr.
A FIRE strategy where investments have reached a level that should continue growing towards retirement without requiring further significant contributions.
This often allows people to reduce working hours or pursue more fulfilling work.
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- Digital Nomad /ˈdɪdʒ.ɪ.tl ˈnoʊ.mæd/ n.
Someone who works remotely while travelling between locations rather than living permanently in one place.
- DINK /dɪŋk/ abbr.
Dual Income, No Kids.
Traditionally describes two adults living together, both earning an income and without children. Today, the term often represents a broader lifestyle built around freedom, flexibility and intentional living.
- DINKerati /ˌdɪŋk.əˈrɑː.ti/ n. pl. dinkfolk
The collective name for respected voices within the DINK community – authors, researchers, creators, entrepreneurs, experts and travellers helping shape the conversation around modern life without children.
- DINKified /ˈdɪŋk.ɪ.faɪd/ adj. dinkfolk
Having embraced or evolved into the DINK lifestyle.
Can describe a home, routine, mindset or way of living. “Their apartment has become completely DINKified.”
- DINKish /ˈdɪŋk.ɪʃ/ adj. dinkfolk
Displaying qualities commonly associated with DINK life – flexible, experience-led, financially intentional, travel-focused, spontaneous.
“That feels like a very DINKish way to spend a weekend.”
- DINKlomacy /dɪŋkˈlɒm.ə.si/ n. dinkfolk
The art of navigating conversations and expectations around not having children.
Whether explaining your choices to relatives, responding to assumptions or balancing friendships across different life stages, good DINKlomacy requires tact.
- DINKnitary /ˈdɪŋk.nɪ.ter.i/ n. dinkfolk
A respected figure within the DINK community – someone recognised for their contribution, influence or expertise.
- DINKotomy /dɪŋˈkɒt.ə.mi/ n. dinkfolk
The interesting contradictions that exist within DINK life. Examples include: being a DINK today but hoping to have children in the future; not technically being a DINK while embracing much of the lifestyle; loving flexibility whilst also craving greater permanence.
- DINKWAD /ˈdɪŋk.wɒd/ abbr.
Dual Income, No Kids, With A Dog.
Perhaps the best-known DINK variation. Dogs are often central to travel plans, homes and daily life.
- DINKWOC /ˈdɪŋk.wɒk/ abbr.
Dual Income, No Kids, With One Cat. The feline equivalent of DINKWAD.
- DINKWOCs /ˈdɪŋk.wɒks/ abbr.
Dual Income, No Kids, With Cats. Used for households with multiple cats.
- DINKY /ˈdɪŋk.i/ abbr.
Dual Income, No Kids Yet.
Describes couples who currently have no children but expect to become parents in the future.
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- Empty Nester /ˈɛmp.ti ˈnɛs.tər/ n.
A parent whose children have grown up and left home.
Although not technically DINKs, many empty nesters rediscover freedoms and priorities that closely resemble DINK living.
- Estate Planning /ɪˈsteɪt ˈplæn.ɪŋ/ n. phr.
The process of deciding how wealth, assets and personal wishes will be managed during life and after death.
Increasingly important for DINK households without direct heirs.
- Experience Economy /ɪkˈspɪər.i.əns ɪˈkɒn.ə.mi/ n. phr.
The idea that people increasingly spend money on experiences rather than possessions.
Travel, dining, events and hobbies are all examples.
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- Fat FIRE /fæt ˌfaɪər/ n. phr.
A version of FIRE focused on achieving financial independence while maintaining a higher standard of living.
Luxury travel, premium experiences and financial comfort remain part of retirement.
- Financial Independence /faɪˈnæn.ʃl ˌɪn.dɪˈpɛn.dəns/ n. phr.
Having sufficient wealth that employment becomes optional rather than essential. Choice becomes the goal.
- FIRE /faɪər/ abbr.
Financial Independence, Retire Early.
A movement centred on investing, saving and building wealth to create greater choice over work and life. Many DINK households naturally align with FIRE because of greater disposable income.
- Flexible Living /ˈflɛk.sɪ.bl ˈlɪv.ɪŋ/ n. phr.
Designing work, home and lifestyle around freedom rather than convention. Increasingly common among DINK households.
- FU Money /ˌɛf ˈjuː ˈmʌn.i/ n. phr.
A financial cushion that allows someone to leave a job, relationship or situation without immediate financial pressure. Freedom through financial resilience.
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- Geoarbitrage /ˌdʒiː.oʊˈɑːr.bɪ.trɪdʒ/ n.
Living somewhere with a lower cost of living while earning income from a higher-paying location.
Often used by remote workers and digital nomads.
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- HENRY /ˈhɛn.ri/ abbr.
High Earner, Not Rich Yet.
Someone earning a high income but still building long-term wealth.
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- LAT /læt/ abbr.
Living Apart Together. A committed couple who choose not to share a home.
- Lean FIRE /liːn ˌfaɪər/ n. phr.
A minimalist approach to Financial Independence, Retire Early. Focused on lower living costs and simpler lifestyles.
- Legacy Planning /ˈlɛɡ.ə.si ˈplæn.ɪŋ/ n. phr.
Planning the impact you want your life and wealth to have beyond your lifetime.
For many DINKs, legacy extends beyond children to charities, communities, projects or causes.
- Lifestyle Design /ˈlaɪf.staɪl dɪˈzaɪn/ n. phr.
The intentional creation of a life around personal priorities rather than social expectations. One of the defining principles behind many DINK lifestyles.
- Lock-and-Leave /ˌlɒk ənd ˈliːv/ adj.
A home requiring minimal maintenance, allowing owners to travel frequently without concern.
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- Midlife Reinvention /ˈmɪd.laɪf ˌriː.ɪnˈvɛn.ʃn/ n. phr.
Making significant changes to career, lifestyle, relationships or purpose during midlife. A recurring theme among many dinkfolk readers.
- MINK /mɪŋk/ abbr.
Multiple Income, No Kids. A household where there are multiple incomes.
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- Natalism /ˈneɪ.tə.lɪ.zəm/ n.
The belief that having children is desirable, beneficial or socially important. Natalism can be cultural, political, religious or personal.
- NINK /nɪŋk/ abbr.
No Income, No Kids. Usually used humorously to describe someone between jobs or taking a career break.
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- OINK /ɔɪŋk/ abbr.
One Income, No Kids. A household where only one partner currently earns an income.
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- Pet Parent /pɛt ˈpeər.ənt/ n.
A light-hearted term for someone who considers their pets to be family members.
- Pied-à-terre /ˌpjeɪ.dæˈteər/ n.
A small secondary home used for work, travel or weekends away.
- Portfolio Career /pɔːtˈfoʊ.li.oʊ kəˈrɪər/ n. phr.
Building a career from multiple income streams rather than one traditional full-time role. Increasingly popular among entrepreneurs, freelancers and consultants.
- Pronatalism /proʊˈneɪ.tə.lɪ.zəm/ n.
The promotion or encouragement of having children through cultural expectations, government policy, religion or social pressure.
Pronatalist assumptions often appear in everyday life, where parenthood is presented as the default life path. One of dinkfolk’s editorial aims is simply to acknowledge that different life paths exist.
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- Quiet Luxury /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt ˈlʌk.ʃər.i/ n. phr.
An understated approach to spending focused on craftsmanship, quality and longevity rather than status symbols.
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- Sabbatical /səˈbæt.ɪ.kl/ n.
An extended break from work to travel, study, volunteer or pursue personal interests.
- Sandwich Generation /ˈsænd.wɪtʃ ˌdʒɛn.əˈreɪ.ʃn/ n. phr.
Adults simultaneously supporting ageing parents while raising dependent children.
Although many DINK households aren’t part of the traditional Sandwich Generation, they may still become primary carers for ageing relatives.
- Second Home /ˈsɛk.ənd hoʊm/ n. phr.
A property owned in addition to a primary residence. Often used for seasonal living, remote working or regular escapes.
- SINK /sɪŋk/ abbr.
Single Income, No Kids. A single adult without children.
- Slow Travel /sloʊ ˈtræv.əl/ n. phr.
Travelling more slowly, staying longer and experiencing destinations more deeply rather than rushing between locations.
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- TINK /tɪŋk/ abbr.
Triple Income, No Kids. A less common term describing three income earners sharing one household.
- Tiny House /ˈtaɪ.ni haʊs/ n. phr.
A deliberately compact home designed around simplicity, efficiency and lower maintenance.
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- Van Life /væn laɪf/ n. phr.
A lifestyle centred around travelling, living or working from a converted van or camper.
For some it’s a full-time way of life; for others, weekend freedom.
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- Workcation /ˈwɜːk.keɪ.ʃn/ n.
Working remotely while staying somewhere away from home.
Unlike a holiday, work remains part of the day, but the location changes.
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- YOLO /ˈjoʊ.loʊ/ abbr.
You Only Live Once.
Within the DINK community, it can reflect the idea of intentionally investing in the life you want to live today rather than waiting for a later chapter.